In Jerry Stiller, the Rage of Jewish Fathers found a hilarious outlet 2020

Jerry Stiller

1. A timing and bubbly bass of the comic actor’s rat reminded us why we loved those weird, embarrassing relatives.

 Jerry Stiller
30 October 2006 – Beverly Hills, California – Jerry Stiller. The Museum of Television & Radio To Honor Leslie Moonves and Jerry Bruckheimer At its Annual Los Angeles Gala held at Regent Beverly Wilshire Hotel. Photo IMDb

2. Every time Jerry Stiller opened his mouth to “Seinfeld“, it made me laugh.

Partly, it was a shock to come out. Stiller, who died at the age of 92 on Monday, exploded while speaking so much. His flamboyant bass immediately diverted energy into the scene, adding strange tension and unbounded rage to it that was downright silly. Then he had the comic rhythm, an old-school rat-a-tet that turned out to be right at this point. But what actually resonated was more personal.

4. Stiller, it must be said, had an expanding career that included helping to invent improvisational comedy with Compass Players in Chicago; A hit double act with his wife Anne Meara; And everything from the film “hairspray” to the sitcom “The King of Queens” is memorable. But as is often the case in memories, journalists focus on their most famous role. As he enraged me, headlines about Brian Denhy’s death focused on “Tommy Boy” and “First Blood”, as opposed to his historical appearances in plays by Arthur Miller and Eugene O’Neill, You may be irritated that this essay celebrates a supporting role towards the end of his career. If so, let me ask you one thing: Kevat about it, loudly. If there is anything to be learned from Jerry Stiller on “Sinfield”, this is it: Volume matters.

Jerry Stiller

When he bellows “Serenity now!” as a tool for relaxation on the orders of his doctor, there is not a teaspoon of Zen about it. Stiller was no one-trick ranter, either. He could find laughs in a soft tone, too, even benefiting from the juxtaposition. Listen to him repeat “You want a piece of me?” to Julia Louis-Dreyfus, making her break character, in one of the great outtakes in comedy history. His quiet intensity is what starts at first, setting up the roar.

5. Almost by accident, Frank Costanza was written as Italian, not Jewish. But those of us who are Jews knew better. Or at least Jerry Stiller made sure we did. He was the Jewish heart of the show. “Stanfield” was not clear about his Jewishness, but it provided enough clues.

The biggest episode of Stiller is probably where we learn from his dead son George, played by Jason Alexander, that he invented a holiday called Favis as a Christmas celebration. If there is a common outdoor experience for Jewish children, it is strange isolation felt during the December holidays when they are stuck without Christmas trees and stockings. And while Festivus has entered the popular lexicon, Stiller saw a peculiar tone that sounded like many Passover seders. “The tradition of the festival,” he declares, “begins with the transmission of complaints.”

Like so many great Jewish comics, Stiller is a master in the complaint. At Stiller’s New York Fars Club, Jeff Ross turned to him and said, “His Hebrew name is Yech!”

In addition, a splendid tradition of Jewish comics mocked his parents and grandparents, especially the generation that immigrated to the United States. Woody Allen, Elaine May, and Larry David have done it all, turning these people into narcotics criminals, criminals, and criminals. These jokes came from the perspective of youngsters like me, who saw something different about these beloved family members. He had thick accents, old-world ideas, and witty-dirty work. I had a grandpa who sold eggs (he looked like Frank Coffenza’s father to Seinfield’s dad). And yet, we also knew that it was harder than these elders. They struggled in ways that we fully understood. They had to hustle and scrap. He sounded off as it was the only way to listen. And also, well, they were a little deaf.

All these elements were in Jerry Stiller’s portrait. He was funny but at the same time proud, nervous, and passionate about humble things. His flirtatious, equal force, and very high voice with his wife, played surprisingly by Estelle Harris, were formidable fights but gentle.

 Jerry Stiller


Father’s anger can be scary. And sitcoms have a way of closing their edges in cheap ways. But Stiller has a comic rage that was consistently permanent: plucky, ineffective with a hint of heat. He was critical. In the show, the younger people improvise so vigorously that they turn their eyes on his anger. He made you laugh at the things that made our ancestors strange and even embarrassing, but at the same time reminded us why we love them.

Jerry Stiller
Jerry Stiller

Gerald Isaac Stiller (June 8, 1927 – May 11, 2020) was an American comedian, actor, and writer. He spent several years as part of the comedy duo Stiller and Meera with his wife Anne Meera, whom he had been married to for more than 60 years, until his death in 2015. Stiller played George Costanza, starting a later career revival in 1993. Father Frank on the sitcom Seinfeld, a part that earned Stiller an Emmy nomination.

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